Deciding that your marriage is at an end can be traumatic. Particularly if your spouse does not feel the same way. Equally, being confronted by your spouse’s decision to end the marriage can leave you feeling devastated.

Commonly, couples are at different stages emotionally. This can result in each person wishing to move forward at a different pace and/or in a different direction.

Whatever position you are in, pressure to make the ‘right’ decision can be enormous, especially if you have children. Knowing what to do can feel like a minefield.

This interactive tool is designed to guide you through your options, depending upon your specific circumstances.

Understanding your options is the first step to taking control of the situation.